my son has hem. on lower lip i have tried the laser 3 yrs. ago and thought things would be fine, well there not it came back and its just as big and its getting bigger, and now theres other problems and im trying to find some one to help me because now he will need surgery. he just turned 13 and likes girls but he is afraid that they dont like him because of this, and it hurts me to see my only child go thru this, so if any one has any ideas please let me know...