Hi Hank ,thnx for ye reply , i really appreciate, and it is so good to see u r so happy together with Jessica.u r a great guy ,really .

"If people can not except you for who you are then you do not need them in your life. For the strangers, everyone has a fla, nobody is perfect. Ours are just more noticealble. Make the best of it." what a great idea it is ! ye positive mind brings hope to me , i suddenly realise why should i care so much about others' thought about my birthmark , it is so self-torturing, i 'll learn to be more positive.....thnx!
By the way i am staying in china .