I hear ya - we went through the same doubts with removing our baby's scalp hemangioma. I thought the same thing with "never forgiving myself" if something were to happen..
We went with our gut. And that was telling us to remove it. Of course we were terrified throughout the whole procedure, but we are happy we did it, the results could not be better and our daughter has no clue what went on.
Listen to what your mother instincts are telling you
Mom to Brendan (7 years old)
and Kayleigh (born 9/8/07)