Thanks for the advice. I have been having a hard time with this...she will be in the best care, but things happen.
She will most likely have the surgery, but i have wondering what it would be like for her if she didn't. I don't want her to be hardened...she's as sweet as they come, I want her to stay that way. If how i feel when i take her out is any indication, then the decision is made. I cannot tell you how much it hurts for someone to *gasp* at your new baby...