I am on birthmarks.com as well. I know people that are on different group as well that are mostly single.
Email me and we can talk about it.
When it comes to finding someone for relationships. I have noticed that I look for "perfect people" all the time. I have had some relationships in my days. The gals I have dated where not the most perfect people in the world. Everybody has flaws, and no one is perfect. To me it does not matter what the person looks like, if matters how big their heart is, and who the person is inside. The ways I am saying is if the person is not as atractive they are more open to relationships, and are less judgemental.
It is not you, it is the other people around you that can not except you, and nobody needs that in their life.
Hope this helps,