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Old 04-25-2005, 03:42 PM
Dyan
 
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Default Re: Relationships

I don't know about anyone else, but I found that when I stopped looking, I found a wonderful guy (I know he wasn't looking either). It seems like that's when it happens for all of my friends who don't have birthmarks as well.

For me at least, I think that's when you relax and don't feel the "I need a relationship" pressure. It allows the person to see you (i.e. fall for you ) for who you are, without all the facades that everyone puts up when they are focused on the 'need to be in a relationship' zone. I decided to be happy with myself and relax - if the right person came along, that was cool, if not, I was happy so who cares. After about a year, the right person came along and added extra layers of happiness, but at my core I'm still happy. I think that's also part of what attracts him to me.

I don't know if that helps or not.
Take care,
Dyan
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