Hi and welcome!
Other parents will post soon. If you'd like to get a second opinion, let us know where you are and we'll see if we can get you hooked up with a specialist.
We have a Wound Care Expert, Dr. Serena. You can get in touch with him through
http://birthmark.org/experts.php
Also, there are physicians there that you can ask about treatments for lip hemangiomas. Perhaps Dr. Levitin could help you decide between steroids and laser.
Missy