When to talk about H to a 3 and ahlf year old?
Im new to this group, long story behind us......(wont go into it )
My boy now nearly 3 and half , has Never mentioned his upper lip H, he has had surgery and will need another at a later date.
The other night he was looking at our pictures screen saver and one came up of his Post Surgery shot, really graphic stiches swollen and all, he turned away...
He to this date has never mentioned his lip, depsite still the comment and stares, from time to time....Nothing like it use to be thank God!!
I"ve been waiting for him to ask, but this has never happened and because of the turning away from the picture, Im wondering is this the time that I maybe need to talk with him about it?
I suppose I was expecting , the questions to come from him.
I"m interested in what others think/ feel about this very sensitve issue.
P.S He is very articulate for his age and comprehension very good too.
Thanks allot helane